Aphro Sleeping

Dear Aphro:

You are a cat, and I am a human. When I am sleeping on the bed, I don’t mind if you want to curl up next to me. I actually like how warm you can make the bed feel.

What I do mind is you sleeping between my knees. Don’t do that. When I wake up it is hard to roll over with you there.

Plus, when I want you to move at 3 in the morning, I’d appreciate it if you just moved, then curled up again. I certainly don’t appreciate being hissed at while you give me the evil eye. I don’t like being smacked with claws, and I hate it when you scamper around the bed. It’s my bed and I am trying to sleep. I don’t care if it inconveniences you or upsets you.

This has been going on for too long. Keep it up and I may seriously entertain the idea of moving you to the basement.

Sincerely

Greg

Pillow Foam

When Sox and I first moved in together I was still using the pillow I used when I was in high school. It was treating me right, but it was getting pretty old. It was also a foam pillow that was supposed to be a single piece, but had came apart into two pieces.

Sox was wanting a new pillow as well, so we bought some moderately priced down pillows. Again this treated me right for a while. Some feathers started working their way out of the pillow and were poking me which was not comfortable.

A few months ago I started waking up with a sore neck, and a sore ear. The pillow had to go. Sox had a pillow from when she had a sore back so I gave that a go. It was a Tempur-Pedic memory foam pillow that had a funny shape.

Again this was treating me right for a while, but again I am waking up in the morning with a sore neck. Plus this pillow makes it hard to sleep on my back. This pillow is more firm than any other I have used, and it is taller as well. This is fine for when I am sleeping on my side, but bad for any other position.

Now I am trying to figure out what to try next. I don’t want to spend tons of money on pillows, but I also want to get a good night sleep, and not wake up sore.

Incident Ring

I got a voicemail at work today from Sox. There was an incident at home today, and our son dropped Sox’s wedding ring into the sink, and it went down the drain. It was an accident, and Sprout was very, very apologetic.

I headed home pretty quickly to retrieve the ring before anything could happen to it. Sox had locked the bathroom door so no little hands could add water to the situation.

I stopped at Rona to pick up a pipe wrench. I knew that I didn’t have anything that would fit the situation.

At home the job seemed pretty simple. Adjust wrench to the correct size, apply to nut, turn nut, remove trap, retrieve ring. Step three is where it went bad.

Whomever tightened the nut last time must have been strong since I could not budge it a bit. Either that, or everything was corroded tight. The whole drain pipe assembly was moving around, so I held it as tight as I could. Then the pipe ripped in half like it was a paper tube.

Crap.

Good news was that I recovered the ring, bad news is that I now need a plumber. Thankfully we know one.

Done Momentum

This past weekend was a good one. A couple weeks ago Sox and I created a 3 page to do list of things left to do from our move. Lots of things can be very daunting (something I learned when reading David Allen’s Getting Things Done). The list was huge. It was daunting. It was easy to avoid doing anything.

Sox and I made a pact though. We decided that each day we would choose three items from the list to do. On the weekend we got quite a few items done and that felt great. It gave us momentum. Actually, it gave me hope that we can get through the list.

Things I did in the past few days:

  • child locks on kitchen cupboards that needed it
  • tightened loose knobs
  • anchored nearly all kids furniture to the walls
  • changed freezer door direction
  • fixed a broken toilet paper holder
  • fixed cupboard next to dishwasher so my daughter can’t open it
  • took useless mirror off bathroom door
  • hung hooks for towel on bathroom door
  • hung hooks on bedroom door

Tonight I plan to anchor a bookcase in our kitchen, fix a gate that Yoshi had chewed, and affix the cable cord to the baseboard. The last one is the hardest since I need to do that one before the kids get to sleep. I already did one thing too: got the jogging stroller wheel fixed (hopefully).

First I need to stop at the hardware store for some supplies.

Checkout Honest

I made a stop at the WestShore Save on Foods today to get some avocado for dinner. After grabbing two of them, I headed up to pay. I was shocked to see the new self serve checkouts. I wanted to pay cash and didn’t feel like trying them out today so I headed for the express line up.

Shock number 2 was the discovery that there were no longer any express lines.

I was wanting to pay cash and wasn’t sure if the self check lines could handle that. I was about to ask someone when I saw the slot for inserting cash. Cool. I proceeded with my transaction and paid for my items without a problem.

Then it struck me. There was approximately 6-8 machines and one clerk running around trying to help everyone. They are really relying on honest people to use them. For instance, the avocados I bought were organic and on sale, making them cheaper than non-organic. They were smaller though. What if I had keyed in 1 avocado and non organic?

I know those systems use weight to verify you are actually buying what you say you are buying, but it wouldn’t be hard to fake them out. I know that doing so is technically shoplifting and could land you in a lot of hot water, but I was through the self-serve checkout machine in 2 minutes. The lone clerk was nowhere near me.

Nice option to have though.

Leaking Reaction

I’ve had an ongoing issue with my truck that took me a while to diagnose. Once I figured out what was wrong, I felt bad that I didn’t get it fixed sooner. Some time ago it started leaking power steering fluid. I didn’t know this was happening until the power steering pump started making an awful racket.

I topped it up, but that didn’t help for long.

Last week I took my truck to Victoria Car Clinic. I’d used them before and wasn’t that impressed.

My first time to them, and they didn’t even do the things I asked. That day when I dropped it off I parked my truck on the street. Out of sight, out of mind. They did the oil change after I called them wondering about my truck. Not impressed.

This time it was booked in for an afternoon appointment on Thursday and when I dropped it off, I parked it in their lot, then rode to work. Around 3:30 I called to get the status update and was met with a strange reaction. The guy I talked to sounded sheepish on the phone. Turns out they hadn’t started any work on it but were just about to. Strike 2.

I called around 4:15 and learned they finished the servicing, had a quote for the power steering, and were just getting my truck put back together. At 4:30 I left work to cycle down there. Once I was there I learned of a problem. Two of the studs on the driver side rear had broken off when they took the wheel off to check the brakes. They were having problems getting the right size studs.

While I waited another delivery was made, and another incorect size. At this point I left the truck with them for the weekend. I also told them to go ahead and fix the pump. I picked up my truck yesterday and it runs good again, and in their testing it didn’t leak any more. Hopefully it stays that way.

Finding a good, trustworthy mechanic is hard. These guys haven’t earned my trust yet. With these two experiences, I don’t know if I will go back. The strange thing is that several of my friends use this shop, and they have nothing but good things to say. Then why do I keep getting the bad luck?

Ruined Owners

I met a poop freak today and he ruined an otherwise good dog walk.

I was walking Yoshi at Colquitz today and in typical Yoshi fashion I needed 3 bags to clean up after him. Since it was the start of the walk and I was going to be coming back the exact same way, I left each bag at the side of the trail so I didn’t have to carry it, or put them under the stroller.

I knew some people were coming up behind me since I saw their dogs. A minute later I heard someone saying something rather loudly so I looked behind me. Some guy repeated “What are you planning on doing with that?”. Took me a second to realize he was talking about the poop bag.

I told him I was going to pick it up on my way back. He then grilled me on my plan. I told him that I was going to do a loop, that I parked near Silver City, that on my way back I would pick up all three bags, and that I always picked up my poop bags. I was very ticked at this point.

He seemed very skeptical of me and ranted about people picking up the poop and leaving the bags all over the place, not bothering to take them to a trash can. He made some noise about when people see someone doing it, it gives tacit approval for them to do it too (his example was littering). He would rather people just leave the poop to decompose over bagging and forgetting it.

I just wanted him gone. I know all the issues, I’ve been involved in committees and I’ve protested. I didn’t need some crackpot going off on me.

It really got to me for some reason. Part of me is bothered that he would lump me in with irresponsible owners. Part of me is bothered that he took such an aggressive tone. Part of me is bothered that he just assumed the worst.

After the walk I dropped Yoshi back at the car then headed for the mall. I saw the guy loading his dogs into his truck and I really wanted to say something to him, but I let it be.

Collective Experience

Sox and I had a fun weekend. Thursday Sprout went up to Nanaimo to spend the weekend with his Gramma, because the rest of us were going to Vancouver.

Saturday morning we had a brunch in Langley that fit in after Beet’s nap. We visited with a group of friends, ate good food and watched the kids play a lot.

For Saturday night Sox and I had tickets to see Collective Soul play at the River Rock casino theatre. It was nice to have the evening out just the two of us. The show was good and they played a lot of good songs. There were a few that I missed hearing. Under Heaven’s Skies is what I really wanted to hear them play, but only because that song has special meaning to me.

Sunday we visited some of Sox’s in North Van before heading to the Horseshoe Bay ferry and going to Nanaimo for dinner. After dinner we piled in the car and drove home.

The drive was not a good one though. On the parkway in Nanaimo it was snowing pretty hard. It wasn’t sticking on the road yet, but it was pretty miserable. Just South of Nanaimo it stopped snowing, but was raining very hard. Passing Mill Bay then starting the climb up the malahat, it resumes snowing. Quickly we could see accumulation on the road, halfway up the hill there must have been a couple inches on the ground, but thankfully just slush on the road that didn’t cause any problems. As the snow thickened I was getting more and more tense. Driving over a slippery road, at night, during a snowstorm is not a good experience.

At the top there was bumper to bumper traffic doing 40 KM/H all the way down to Goldstream. The drive was pretty hellish and it was great to get home.

Mistake Effect

A couple nights ago I did some maintenance here on muddylaces. I fixed a mistake I made a long, long time ago. When I first created this drupal site the first account I created was for gfox. I hadn’t read the best practices guide, so I didn’t understand that this was a bad thing.

Changing this in the database proved daunting and fraught with danger. While I was reading the Using Drupal book I discovered the views bulk operations module.

This module provided the ability to change the owner of a node. A light bulb went off and I quickly realized what needed to be done.

I set up a view to see all nodes (content) on my site. I then configured the view to allow bulk editing, and chose the “Change the author of a post (node_assign_owner_action)” operation. I tested this a bunch before enabling this view. The main issue I found was that I couldn’t target content for a specific userid. Instead I targeted content for the currently logged in user.

I then created a new_gfox account, and then when I was logged in as my first account started using the view to assign the content to my new account. A few minutes later I was done.

It was pretty easy to do this once I had the missing piece of the Views Bulk Operations. After the assigning was all done I renamed my first account, then renamed my new account.

The only unfortunate side effect was that the notification or subscription module went berserk with all the changes and sent out a ton of email to people who were subscribed. Woops, should have disabled that for a few minutes.

Ditch Jelly

Yesterday morning I met up with a few friends for a ride at the dump. It was a cold morning so I dressed extra warm. At the dump I decided to ditch the pants and go with shorts. Add in leg armour, and I was still plenty warm. The route we took was pretty good. It had been a while since I was on trails, so I wanted something easy. We ended up on Green Ribbon, which is decidedly not an easy trail. There are some good steeps, fun rock faces, and some big jumps. I had a blast and was pretty knackered by the end. My quads felt like jelly.

At the end of the last trail we were waiting for Sean to do the last couple drops and I thought I could see some dust falling from the trees. At first I thought pine needles, but someone else said hail. Then we all realized it was snow. 🙂

The sad part of the ride came as we were ascending fun trail. There was lots of ribbons tied to trees and we could see some stakes in the ground marked PL. Sean pointed out that the ribbons were for a fall boundary and the the stakes were property line markers. Looks like we might be losing more trails to a housing development. Years ago people used to call Victoria a biking mecca. We had a few excellent areas to ride, with more in Cobble Hill, Sooke, and Duncan close by. Now we have the dump and Duncan. A few trails at the dump have been lost to development. It is sad for me to see these trails get eaten since the trail system at the dump was a place I grew up. I strongly feel that mountain biking changed my life and helped shape me. Seeing some of this getting torn up tears me up.